help me I need guidence

[Delluseonist]

hello mir community. right mir was the first mmorpg I ever played. I respect everyone in the mir community. i played for years and i think you are all great. you guys is what makes mir the game it is.

now I need your help. i got together with this girl who is a single mum. She said she had never met anyone like me and she loved being around me. i couldnt tell anyone i was dating her as my mate and land lord would get angry if I dated her because he has been mates with her for years and warned me in the first place not to date her.

Now, she is saying there is nothing between us and she doesnt like me and she cant "settle down with anyone" even though we are only dating in secret.

Im not an emo preteen but this time ive had enough of girls being idiots to me. I cant find a nice girl anyware. i recently moved from london to blackpool to escape girls like this but they seem to exist everywhere.

Can somone please give me some guidance on anything, pleaser anything you can leave that will make me feel better will be greatly appretiated.

Thanks guys.

Stuart - Delluseonist

 

[daneo1989]

just leave her, somone will come along soon enough but alot of girls are money grabber's so just be a bike

 

[Tai]

hello mir community. right mir was the first mmorpg I ever played. I respect everyone in the mir community. i played for years and i think you are all great. you guys is what makes mir the game it is.

What are you talking about? We're all complete ******s.

Anyway I have no advice for you cos I always get the bad seeds

 

[daneo1989]

What are you talking about? We're all complete ******s.

Anyway I have no advice for you cos I always get the bad seeds

gotta agree the mir community is full of ******s >.< and thread will be flamed soon enough

 

[Far]

lets use this thread as a test run, and see how long we can go without shouting at it each other.

and yeah, all girls are like that, my advice is to turn gay if you dont want that.

 

[daneo1989]

lets use this thread as a test run, and see how long we can go without shouting at it each other.

and yeah, all girls are like that, my advice is to turn gay if you dont want that.

lol what good advice, my opinion dont take that advice lightly.. the right lady will come along sooner then l8er maybe try get with somone older then you. they seem to want to settle down more and your freinds wont have anything to say then

 

[Prai]

hello mir community. right mir was the first mmorpg I ever played. I respect everyone in the mir community. i played for years and i think you are all great. you guys is what makes mir the game it is.

now I need your help. i got together with this girl who is a single mum. She said she had never met anyone like me and she loved being around me. i couldnt tell anyone i was dating her as my mate and land lord would get angry if I dated her because he has been mates with her for years and warned me in the first place not to date her.

Now, she is saying there is nothing between us and she doesnt like me and she cant "settle down with anyone" even though we are only dating in secret.

Im not an emo preteen but this time ive had enough of girls being idiots to me. I cant find a nice girl anyware. i recently moved from london to blackpool to escape girls like this but they seem to exist everywhere.

Can somone please give me some guidance on anything, pleaser anything you can leave that will make me feel better will be greatly appretiated.

Thanks guys.

Stuart - Delluseonist

You need to ask yourself can you see yourself without her?
Can you leave her alone?

If you really want her, fight for her. She might just be insecure about the whole relationship thing.

 

[Kadama]

There are many ways you can aproach this, and theres a few things you need to ask yourself and take into account.

1. Do you have feelings for her
2. Is a girl worth losing friends over, as friends are there for life!
3. Your landlord probably cant kick you out if you did get with her, due to regulations n whatnot
4. Does super mario really exist? these are the things you must ask yourself
5. As Prai stated, shes probably insecure from saying one minute she wants you, then the next she doesn't? Something has obviously made her think "is it all worth it", maybe shes getting trouble off somebody.

My advice is just take each moment as it comes, if it works out it works out if it doesnt it dont, theres plenty of good woman out there and you usually find them when your not looking!

 

[Nalor]

Women are a pain in the arse, they always will be. I dont have the time nor patience for a relationship at the moment.

Just have some fun whenever you can.

 

[Prai]

There are many ways you can aproach this, and theres a few things you need to ask yourself and take into account.

1. Do you have feelings for her
2. Is a girl worth losing friends over, as friends are there for life!
3. Your landlord probably cant kick you out if you did get with her, due to regulations n whatnot
4. As Prai stated, shes probably insecure from saying one minute she wants you, then the next she doesn't? Something has obviously made her think "is it all worth it", maybe shes getting trouble off somebody.

My advice is just take each moment as it comes, if it works out it works out if it doesnt it dont, theres plenty of good woman out there and you usually find them when your not looking!

That was moving..:cray:

You move me.

Im so proud.

 

[Kadama]

I know i know... It felt so wrong, yet so right.

 

[JealY]

There are many ways you can aproach this, and theres a few things you need to ask yourself and take into account.

1. Do you have feelings for her
2. Is a girl worth losing friends over, as friends are there for life!
3. Your landlord probably cant kick you out if you did get with her, due to regulations n whatnot
4. Does super mario really exist? these are the things you must ask yourself
5. As Prai stated, shes probably insecure from saying one minute she wants you, then the next she doesn't? Something has obviously made her think "is it all worth it", maybe shes getting trouble off somebody.

My advice is just take each moment as it comes, if it works out it works out if it doesnt it dont, theres plenty of good woman out there and you usually find them when your not looking!

My mind's telling me no.

But my body...

My body's telling me yes.


Beautiful.

 

[gillby]

female point of view - stop 'dating'
make friends with females, socialise, get to know them before u decide if u like them.
It's not old fashioned to not kiss or get laid on the first date, it's sensible!
Clearly u got caught up with a chick who doesnt know wat she wants and is looking at u as a bit of fun. As thats not wat ur looking for its worth spending a bit more time looking so u dont get ur heart broken over and over.
Also... dating in secret... big no-no. The fact that u have to hide wats going on is a huge flashing neon sign that somethings not right there. Sometimes ur mates can see things that u cant, sometimes their opinions are totally valid and worth taking into consideration... sometimes they're just assholes tho, its up to u to decide that.

 

[Tai]

female point of view - stop 'dating'
make friends with females, socialise, get to know them before u decide if u like them.
It's not old fashioned to not kiss or get laid on the first date, it's sensible!
Clearly u got caught up with a chick who doesnt know wat she wants and is looking at u as a bit of fun. As thats not wat ur looking for its worth spending a bit more time looking so u dont get ur heart broken over and over.
Also... dating in secret... big no-no. The fact that u have to hide wats going on is a huge flashing neon sign that somethings not right there. Sometimes ur mates can see things that u cant, sometimes their opinions are totally valid and worth taking into consideration... sometimes they're just assholes tho, its up to u to decide that.

mmm good advice

what part of australia?

 

[lozmuir]

She's going to be looking for someone she can settle down with, she'll put her children first so you need to show her that your long-term material. If your not willing to go the distance with her then leave it.

If she actually likes you then the best thing you can do is be great with her children. Mum's eat that up. I was in the same situation with my bird being very insecure and always worrying how it would affect her kids. Im married to her now so I must of done something right.

 

[samhag]

Think you need to pull ya self together man and forget about her. Harsh maybe but true.

 

[DeathsDoor]

british girls are all like that
"im just emotionally not ready" or "settle down with anyone" and all that ****

in iraq , u just wave a 100$ bill and a girl will instantly fall in love wit u , trust me , i've tried it

 

[Kadama]

Thats probably because you havent got the qualities for an english girl to fall in love with you lol

 

[Prai]

british girls are all like that
"im just emotionally not ready" or "settle down with anyone" and all that ****

in iraq , u just wave a 100$ bill and a girl will instantly fall in love wit u , trust me , i've tried it

Get over Iraq. The place is a Sh1t hole anyways.

 

[HeadHunter]

british girls are all like that
"im just emotionally not ready" or "settle down with anyone" and all that ****

in iraq , u just wave a 100$ bill and a girl will instantly fall in love wit u , trust me , i've tried it

I erm . . . dunno how to put this . . .



I wouldn't call them 'girls'

/Jenix