sounds like the cat from way back who used to host a 1.4 server RED13 i think it was, server generally gets restarted once a week and if she doesn't like something someones doing she logs on her gm and chatbans/kicks them etc, so attacking her character would be a definate no no. I remember when she gave her normal character god mode to go around stealing boss's. It is her that keeps the numbers down on the server because most players get annoyed/banned because she is so childish, and she knowns how to pop up at high level also and if she falls too far behind a quick gm level boost comes in handy. Simply going off the host i wouldn't recommend playing.
in all fairness the server i have played with her as a host were fairly good, it's just cat herself that ruins the server with her mental age of 5.